I Never Told My Husband’s Family I Understood Spanish – Until I Heard My Mother-in-Law Say, ‘She Can’t Know the Truth Yet’

My father-in-law chuckled. “No! And Luis promised not to tell her.”

I pressed my back against the wall, the monitor slipping in my sweaty palm.

Mateo was asleep in his crib behind me, completely unaware that his grandmother was talking about him like he was a problem that needed solving.

“She can’t know the truth yet,” my mother-in-law continued, her voice dropping to that particular tone she used when she thought she was being careful. “And I’m sure it won’t be considered a crime.”

I stopped breathing.

For three years, I’d let Luis’s family believe I didn’t understand Spanish. I’d sat through dinners where they discussed my weight gain after pregnancy, my terrible pronunciation when I tried to use Spanish phrases, and the way I “didn’t season food properly.”

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